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My boyfriend always verbally abuse me and makes me cry. If I try to tell him how hurt I was, he says to me he loves me and can't hurt me but always abuse me. Why?

14.06.2025 01:44

My boyfriend always verbally abuse me and makes me cry. If I try to tell him how hurt I was, he says to me he loves me and can't hurt me but always abuse me. Why?

Where there is abuse, there is no love. You can't be with a person who abuses. You have to leave him without a second thought. Block him. Focus on moving on and healing. Getting over abusive relationships will take time.

Accept the fact your boyfriend doesn't love you. Your boyfriend is abusive and doesn't have the capacity to love. He says he loves you because it's easier for him to say it by words than to prove it by actions.

Your boyfriend doesn't care about your feelings; he gets angry because he can't control his emotions when something doesn't go his way. He doesn't even understand that you are going through pain. When you cry, he manages the situation by saying he loves you.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?